"We damage people when we try to fix them"

I realized something! That's something to be grateful for, isn't it? When we "try" to fix people, like we could, that's laughable in itself, we damage people. First of all, we make them feel that there is something "wrong" with them, or why else would we be "fixing" them. Second of all, we place ourselves above them, and therefore we are looking down on them, which makes them feel judged and inferior. Most people just want to be listened to. If they ask for your advice, give it with no attachments, no control, and please no judgement. Don't let your ego put you on a pedestal, looking down on all those poor lost souls.....it's a long way to fall!